Hey my sexy babies. I am ready to bring in the New Year bitches!!! Out with the old and in with the new. 2010 has been very much anticipated!! I can’t wait to make it an even hotter and nastier year than ’09. There are so many new things that I have going on in ’10 that it’s really exciting. Tell me babies; what are you all getting into tonight? You going to the club, or a house party? Or maybe you’re just doing a low-key dinner and movie? Whatever it is, I hope you all have a safe and blessed holiday! Make sure to have a designated driver or a taxi or something. Shit you could ride the bus if you had too, and that would be the cheapest route. But one thing is for sure; I would be devastated to hear of anything happening to any of you. So please be safe.
One thing I think I am going to have to work on this year is my dating skillz…lol. Seriously ya’ll I am so bad at dating. I decided I need some help from you all on what guys like these days. I am always so wrapped up in what I am doing that I have completely lost touch with how to work as a unit with someone. I have been content being single and I have different men in my life that fill the missing boyfriend voids for me. But I have really been entertained by the idea of being in a committed relationship lately. But I have also come to realize that it’s not so easy to just go out and find a boyfriend. I’ll need to make sure he is the right one.
So guys this is were I need your help. I want many different views too, so please please leave me your thoughts. Even if you never usually comment on these blogs, do it for me. Smile! How long do you guys usually wait to call a girl if you are interested in her? If you’re not interested do you just not call again? What kind of things turns you off on a date? And please tell me this. Do you mind if a girl expresses her interest in you or would you rather her not be so forward? I guess I need some help in this subject because the relationships I have with men are usually sexual. I usually am just looking to be fucked and so I find one whom looks like they could satisfy me. I have decided that I am not going to let my sex drive control of my love life. Just because a guy is a quality fuck doesn’t mean he will be a quality boyfriend.
I am at the point now where I’m not interested in playing games. Guys you say you don’t like games either but then when a girl shows that she’s all about you from the get go sometimes you back off. So I feel like us, as women always need the game to be going on. Do you think you are the kind of guy who wants something just because you can’t have it? Or do you value and appreciate the things you are able to get? Many people are like that and I think guys can definitely be like that with women especially. Once they get them however; they don’t want them anymore. I’m sure there are many girls out there who lost their virginity to a guy like that! Woman can be the same but I find it is usually about other things. We are much more loving and emotional when it comes to men and our relationships with them. But guys aren’t really. So tell me, and be honest. You do like when a girl keeps you chasing her a little bit, right? Who knows maybe I am completely off. That’s why I’m asking you all. Haha!
Is this crazy? Don’t worry; I do know that relationships and love happen when you are least expecting it and when you’re not looking. I am just trying to figure out which signs to not look out for…lol. However if I am going to start going on dates, I need to know what the hell I am doing…haha! I have never been a dater in my life. I have always had long-term relationships, but this was definitely before moving to LA. I have had one long-term boyfriend since being here in Ca. !! guys here are way different than in the rest of the world. Everyone has an agenda! It’s about finding the one with positive intentions that def hard.
Well babies, have a wonderful night! Please please please be safe! But have a hellovagoodtime!! Drink lots of bubbly for me and put your tongue down a hotties throat when the ball drops and then move them into the bedroom to bring in the New Year right!
Keep it nasty for me babies! I love you all and will talk to ya next year…lol. (haha I had too!)